Sometimes It is okay to not feel okay. Yes I am 90s kid, Although I sometimes write a diary and other times I prefer to write a blog as well, depending on mood.
I will not generalise this blog rather will write about my personal life, my experiences, and my thinking.
Yes, I am a 90s kid and for us life feels like late. GenZ are coming to create content their posts are getting viral and earning lacs for a social media post where as we hardly get time out of our profession to either shoot or edit a video. However, I try to create a few reels once in a blue moon. Here is my Instagram .
So I was talking about being late, Right now its 12.30 am in midnight and I am late for bed as ideally, i want to sleep at 10. Now since I will sleep in next 1 hour, I will wake up late around 8, because of which I will have to rush for the office and skip breakfast because If I don’t reach on time, the manager will mark me short attendance. Because of this morning rush I will be in pressure in official work as well because of which I won’t be able to concentrate on work and might listen to some “good words from seniors”.
Daily Routine
Now I have to become rich as well so I will open my Kite / Zerodha App and look how my shares are performing, Aaj kal thoda sukoon hai, as market is on the higher side and nifty has crossed 24500 lekin thodi der me realize hota h this amount is not even going to pay any of the expenses that are coming in the foreseeable future. After a tiring day, I need to take care of body as well we all have heard “Health comes First” so it is crucial to go to gym as well. Right now I am living in BKC, Mumbai
There are lot of expenses that I have to bear and all the family’s pressure is on my shoulders since I am the eldest child in my family, but you know what I believe we should accept the fact that “Good things take time”. It is not good to pressure things on yourself everytime Listen to me “Hey, You are already going through a lot, now there is no need to make yourself feel bad about things you don’t have rather focus on what do you have”.
Affirmations and Visualisation
I am a keen believer of Affirmations, Visualisation and Manifestation. So the statements that you say to yourself matter a lot. They say that universe listens to you, and we humans have a nasty habit of finding logic in everything so here is the logic behind it – When we say these positive statements to ourselves, mind has the power to imagine what we speak. What we imagine is in our minds because as you know the subconscious mind cannot figure out the difference between real and imaginary pictures. So now whatever you are having in your thoughts will come to reality because you already have a picture of how this thing should be as you have already imagined. Consider it like a domino effect, one positive action leads to another and it leads to the next one and the same is with the negative action as well.
When life hits hard
So when in life you are not feeling good you need to stop then and there itself, break the dominos effect, Collect your shit together, and come back stronger. At first, people get frustrated and miserable just because the things do not go as expected or the things as not in the control of his hand.
Here is a 3 step technique to do when you are stuck in the worst situation of your life.
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- First of all stop panicking, and think about what is the worst thing that can happen, in this situation.
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- Accept the worst that can happen
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- Try to make things better from where you are and in what situation you are.
Now since you have made the peace with worst, everything above that will be a satisfaction for you and your mind.
Lets take an Example of this:
Imagine you are in a middle of some critical delivery to the client you have somehow promised and gave your word based on your vendor and your client has committed the same to his client. Now because of some external circumstances, your vendor is taking 10 more days to deliver however you have to deliver the material in 2 days as per your commitment. Now first of all accept the fact, what has happened, why, and how can it not be repeated. once that is assessed accept the fact that material will come at its given time, no one can expedite the process.